How do you tell someone that you consider that a friend WITHOUT ruining the friendship, that you are feeling used? It seems that our definitions of βhelpβ and βtogetherβ are totally different. I feel like all Iβm being expected to do all the work, with very little assistance, with very little input. I donβt think my friend understands how much work it really can take, which is even more of a big deal when added to all the other stuff I have going on. Hmmm,β¦ I know my friend is busy, but I am, too.

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