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the undeniable meh

the undeniable meh

I am so tired lately that it’s zapped me of motivation to do much of anything but chill. Which is not very helpful for the creative process and writing, which is a necessary part of well, being a writer. Physically tired, mentally tired… all of the tired! I think most of it is because of […]

Posted 5.3.2021/1437 | Monday in Pondering Life | / 1 Comment

pet peeves

pet peeves

pet peeve (noun): a frequent subject of complaint It’s weird how something that is no big deal to one person can irritate the hell out of another. I don’t have a lot of pet peeves, but I definitely have a few. interrupt me ONE more time, I dare you One is being interrupted. I effing […]

Posted 4.30.2021/1910 | Friday in Bitches & Moans | , / 0 Comments

i’m not good at letting go

i’m not good at letting go

I’ve never been good at it. Letting go of people, of friendships or relationships. That kind of thing. Because of it, my boundaries aren’t always what they should be. I grew up in a glass house, in a small town. I came from a long line of lawyers, of politicians, of educators. I was raised […]

Posted 4.28.2021/1255 | Wednesday in Pondering Life | / 2 Comments

a lonely realization

a lonely realization

I just looked at some of the other blogs that participated in the Tuesday blog meme I did in my previous post. And one thing was very quickly clear. I don’t fit in. At all. And that’s a little lonely. The blogging community I once knew is gone. It’s very different now. Far more conservative […]

Posted 4.27.2021/1512 | Tuesday in Pondering Life | / 1 Comment

evolving, part I

evolving, part I

The last few years have changed me. Maybe, at least in part, that’s the price of aging. The “with age comes wisdom” thing. Perhaps that is part of it. But I think a bigger part of it has come from both within and without, the price of the Trump years. They were exhausting for me, […]

Posted 4.22.2021/2009 | Thursday in Pondering Life | / 0 Comments

So much change…

So much change…

So blogging definitely fell by the wayside for most of the last two years. I can’t believe it’s been so long since I last posted. A lot has happened since then, life-changing kind of things. Since my last post in March of 2017, I’ve published four books, four novellas, one short, and I’ve been in […]

Posted 2.8.2019/0926 | Friday in Pondering Life | / 0 Comments

Living the Dream

Living the Dream

I want nothing more than to stay in Hawaii when Corey ‘s time is up in the Army.  This place is my soul home and it would break my heart to leave.  I’ve been doing lots and lots of research, looking for affordable homes in paradise.  And that is not an easy thing to do! […]

Posted 3.3.2017/1729 | Friday in My Favorite Things, Pondering Life | / 0 Comments

Moving forward…

Moving forward…

So it has been a very long time since I’ve written.  Life took a downward turn, which I wrote about here.  I suppose I had a rough time adjusting to that for a lot of reasons.  I had a lot of dark days that really took a lot out of me.  Grief is one of […]

Posted 2.2.2017/1332 | Thursday in Pondering Life | , / 0 Comments

A little bit of insight…

A little bit of insight…

I had a homework assignment this week for my Craft and Practice in Creative Writing class.  It was an “observation and reflection” free-writing exercise for which we were to take 20-30 minutes in some familiar setting.  For the first 10-15 minutes, we had to simply observe on our surroundings, considering the external aspects of our environment.  For […]

Posted 9.10.2014/1108 | Wednesday in Pondering Life, School Days | , / 0 Comments